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HELP!!! NEED ADVICE!!!

Thu Jan 22, 2009, 7:28 PM
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Please I need some major help i'm a senior in high school so stress is starting to get to me. i have some questions that i can't seem to answer myself. please help me.

1. Will I lose my high school friends after i graduate from school?

2. Are they going to remember me after i leave?

3. Will I ever see them again?

4. Are they just friends with me because they feel bad for me?

5. will the be happy when I leave or will they miss me?

6. Music is half of my life right now, friends are 25, and family is 25, what am i going to do after school if i lose my friends?

7. Am i to stupid to go to college?

8. What do you do, when you believe that one of your friends is mad at you, but you don't know why and if you talk to them about it, it might become worse. That friend might actualy hate you, it might change everything.

9. What is a good way to get rid of stress?

10. What should i have as food for my Open House?

11. What should i have as games for my Open House?

12. What do you do at Open houses?

13. Will anyone besides my family members come to my Open House?

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1. Will I lose my high school friends after i graduate from school?
You may lose contact with some if they move and possibly get cellphone numbers changed.

2. Are they going to remember me after i leave?
Only your true friends will.. the ones you've known for a long time. C: and possibly some of the ones you just met.

3. Will I ever see them again?
It really depends.. you just gotta really try and keep in contact

4. Are they just friends with me because they feel bad for me?
If they are friends with you just because they feel bad for you, for whatever reason; they aren't true friends. Friend's are those who care and will always be with you even through bad times

5. will the be happy when I leave or will they miss me?
Friends will miss you, I miss all my friends from highschool, I wish I could still hang out with them again.

6. Music is half of my life right now, friends are 25, and family is 25, what am i going to do after school if i lose my friends?
Don't fret, you may lose contact with some, but never fear.. just as I said, always stay in contact.

7. Am i to stupid to go to college?
Whatever you want to pursue in life, what your dream job is, it is best to study for that type of job in College. You'll get a job like that faster with a degree.

8. What do you do, when you believe that one of your friends is mad at you, but you don't know why and if you talk to them about it, it might become worse. That friend might actualy hate you, it might change everything.
For whatever reason that occurred, I'd calmly ask them why they seem to hate you. Just ask and just say your curious. And always apologies if you did anything that made them mad in the first place.

9. What is a good way to get rid of stress?
There's many good ways to relieve stress, writing poems, drawings, writing your feelings, or simply talking to a very close friend about what's going on.

10. What should i have as food for my Open House?
Anything you see fit as good party food. (Wings, pizza, cake, cookies, fruit, veggies, pasta, you name it) a lot of people aren't picky on what they eat.

11. What should i have as games for my Open House?
I would suggest (if it's outdoors), to have frisbee's, volleyball, baseketball, football, soccor ball, anything to keep people occupied and keep from being bored.

12. What do you do at Open houses?
Mainly chat with relatives and be goofy, sometimes hanging with friends and doing stuff to make the folks laugh is always a special treat to show your having fun. Talk to people about what your possible dream job is, and what you want to achieve in life.

13. Will anyone besides my family members come to my Open House?
If anything I would love to go to your open house, Just get invitations and ask for people's addresses, or ask them if they'd like to go and get their address. Send them an invitation on the location. C: I know I would!

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lots changes after high school you will lose touch with some of your freinds but you shall meet other people along the way, one of the main changes will be if you continue your education or not, one thing that helped me is take it one at a time pick what is best for you "not what every one else is doing" you may need a break just always remember to leave some time for your self, open houses ar good 'though can be a bit messy in the end but you normaly just hang out with people almost like a small party of sorts , say good bye to some or see you in a few years but dont worry to much your 'true' friends will keep in touch with you may not be the day to day thing your used to but none the less they will keep in touch just remember to keep in touch with them from time to time too "and life happens dont let it worry you to much"
and last from me i say draw draw draw your stress away be it some random idea you have or a furstration you need out 'or you can just screem out side from time to time yes weird but youll feel better'
[you know you can always talk to me i always listen, though my responces may be a bit werid most of the time

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Thanks Shonen that helps
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Thanks ryn that helps. i will send you a invitation as soon as i make them but where do you live now.
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I'll send you a note with my new address. Yeah sadly I don't live on Blaine Street anymore D8> we moved. (bankruptsy bullshit. You should see the house now, it's completely remodeled and you can hardly recognize it.)

You're welcome Stef! :D

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welcomesill give advice anytime if you understand me is another story

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thanks you know i'll help you 2
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i'll send a invite threw note.

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